Guitar Makeover, pt. 4

I have everything in now, and I'm just doing some research to try and figure out how to wire the components. There are a lot of sites that show wiring diagrams, but I usually still have questions that none of them seem to answer. For instance, I have discovered that a capacitor is necessary for the tone pot. However, I can't find 1. if there is such thing as a pot with a built-in capacitor or 2. how to wire in a capacitor which sort of looks like wiry tweezers.

This is the neck I got through Ebay:

It's a lovely neck with the exception of the ding in the headstock. From the picture, I thought I could just fudge a paint job to fill it in, but now that I have the neck, I've discovered that the finish is a veneer. So just brushing some black paint into the chipped area won't look right. My son says to leave it as is, that it gives the neck some character. He may be right. The finish on the body isn't going to be professional looking, so the chip in the headstock will match the overall tone.

So this is where the project is at so far. I probably should get together with someone who has knowledge and experience in this sort of thing, and maybe I will at some point. But I'll try to figure it all out for now.